does having a good time involve loud music and alcohol?

okay, what's having a good time to you?

For me it's good company. Good food, which may or may not involve alcohol, and quiet ambiance.

I don't understand why people who have met me for 2 seconds can make a passing judgment that I don't like to "come out" get pissed drunk and have a good time - their definition of having a good time.

I'm sorry. But having a good time for me doesn't involve me having to scream at the top of my voice so that my friends can hear me.

Or having to squeeze with sweaty bodies. I think I've done my drink dancing pubbing when I was in my 20s. Now I just want to talk to people.

And as for having alcohol. I hate going out if I don't drive. And when I drive I don't want to drink. And alcohol makes me high for like 2 seconds. Then after that I just wanna sleep. Or throw up in your face.

You choose, which might be a more FUN option for u.