in a month's time, in a year's time

I was reading this post .. this lady gave changed her life in a year...and the post is as she reflects, a year later
That got me thinking.It's been 4 years since I came back, and each job has been more to fill the bank account than making me happy. I've worked my ass off, zero social life, no boyfriends (yes starting to realise that now, thank you) and terribly unhappy with life.
Since I can't think so far, let's do a small baby step life planning
1. for a start would be to lose weight and be the ideal weight by June.
Carrying all that excess weight on me hasn't been good. For health reasons,... for vanity reasons. And trust me when I tell you men are shallow and go by looks. I definitely get more looks and second looks when I'm skinnier.
So each month I want to lose at least 2kg, up to a max of 4kg a month (I highly think that' might be impossible). By June I want to be my ideal weight.
2. I will get a man by August.
 I've been single too long. 'nuff said.
Haven't thought about the career bit, but for sure I need to rethink what I want to do.
So let's get 1 & 2 in order first. :) Keep you posted.